Today I’d like to talk about an important principle that’s crucial to your success with women: DETACHMENT. This mindset serves you well in 3 separate areas.
First, there’s the initial interaction during the day. Let’s say you spot an attractive woman and you walk up beside her. You’d like to get talking to her so you look for something you can use as a shared point-of-view.
You spot a commotion going on in the park. A large group of people is demonstrating while waving flags.
You’re going to hear all sorts of strategies from friends and pick-up artists about how to do better with women, but the plain truth is that you’ll get nowhere unless you approach them. Acting cool and hoping they notice or approach you is not a strategy.
Most pick-up lines are a joke, and thinking in those terms means you need help. That said, the idea of “the approach” is very important, and all sorts of tactics can be helpful, including lines you memorize.
Ross Jeffries of Speed Seduction explains his theory of using the blurt-out method – immediately saying to a new girl what’s on your mind, and if she responds, then you can proceed. Watch the video, and pay attention to the thing you should do and the things you shouldn’t do, but Ross has some great advice here. Go to Ross’s site to learn more!