Today I’d like to talk about an important principle that’s crucial to your success with women: DETACHMENT. This mindset serves you well in 3 separate areas.
First, there’s the initial interaction during the day. Let’s say you spot an attractive woman and you walk up beside her. You’d like to get talking to her so you look for something you can use as a shared point-of-view.
You spot a commotion going on in the park. A large group of people is demonstrating while waving flags.
If there is one thing that turns a woman off FASTER than anything else, it’s the moment she sees you as a “nice guy.” The fact is, a woman NEVER uses the word “nice” describe a guy she’s attracted to.
Check out this article and discover David DeAngelo’s proven formula for using “mixed signals” to keep you out of the friend zone FOREVER.
Most guys have NO CLUE what women want in a man. They think women want a rich and famous guy – but what they REALLY want is a guy who can give them that feeling of “attraction.” And guess what? You don’t have to be rich or famous to become a master at it. Just read this article by David DeAngelo and find out how YOU can become a master of attraction…
Here’s a section from the article:
What you haven’t quite realized fully yet is that when you know how to trigger ATTRACTION in a woman, all the “normal” rules go away.
If a woman feels that powerful emotional ATTRACTION for you, then she’ll do ANYTHING with you… just to be in your presence and have your attention.
If you have dialed up the ATTRACTION, then all you need to say is “come over here”.
No dates required.
Now, if you buy her dinner 10 times, call her 3 times a day, and chase her around, then it will be EXPECTED that you continue this pattern… and provide for her.
NOTE: If you’re buying a woman dinner twice a week, giving her flowers, calling her every day, and basically “chasing” her, then you can be about 80% sure that there’s another guy in the picture… but guess what? He’s the one who SHE calls, and he’s the one who says “Come over later, I’m busy now”… no dates required.
In Salon, Liam Tell laments his foot fetish.
In short, I think there’s something wrong with me.
I would ask for help, but who can you talk to about such things? Shall I start sucking my wife’s toes after five years of happy marriage? She has deliciously formed feet — I wouldn’t have married her otherwise — but she wouldn’t understand; no, no, she still talks about the college twerp who tried to suck her lower digits, and the mouthful he got instead.
Oh, my lovely, caring wife knows I like female feet but denies I have a fetish. “You’re normal,” she says. Inside, I howl.
In the dim moonlight, beneath warm covers, she asks, “What do you want, what do you really, really want; anything, I will do anything to/for you.” But she has no idea what she’s asking. I’ve heard variations of this before. People think they might understand. They draw you in. Tell me, they say, I’d really like to know.
But a foot fetish is King Kong. People misunderstand it, run from it, try to kill it. A foot fetish is a scarlet letter that is but one better than the letter assigned to gerbils in the ass. Lives combust when secrets like this are divulged. The moment you tell them the truth — how when you see a female foot of the correct size, color, cleanliness and proportion, you feel a warm tug in places beneath your clothing, your breath escapes like the steam from that kettle, you want to caterwaul like John, Paul, George and Ringo at high harmony — they point and betray like zealots of Big Brother (not the TV show).
We think Liam needs to lighten up. Start by giving your wife foot messages. You don’t just announce that you have a foot fetish – show her how you can enjoy her feet, and how she can enjoy it as well. If she likes the message, she’ll like it if you escalate. Get to work!
You’re going to hear all sorts of strategies from friends and pick-up artists about how to do better with women, but the plain truth is that you’ll get nowhere unless you approach them. Acting cool and hoping they notice or approach you is not a strategy.
Most pick-up lines are a joke, and thinking in those terms means you need help. That said, the idea of “the approach” is very important, and all sorts of tactics can be helpful, including lines you memorize.
Ross Jeffries of Speed Seduction explains his theory of using the blurt-out method – immediately saying to a new girl what’s on your mind, and if she responds, then you can proceed. Watch the video, and pay attention to the thing you should do and the things you shouldn’t do, but Ross has some great advice here. Go to Ross’s site to learn more!
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